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An Inner Team Perspective on Confidence
How do the characters on your Inner Team affect your confidence? Here are four ways. 1. Self-Trust The word confidence comes...
Paul Wyman
Nov 11, 20244 min read
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An Inner Team Perspective on Procrastination
(c) Paul Wyman, 2024 Procrastination is the experience of having one part of you say "go!" while another says "stop!" The result is the...
Paul Wyman
Sep 20, 20243 min read
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Of Shoulds And Buts
Two words reliably indicate what's going on within the Inner Team: here's how they work. SHOULD Your “shoulds” describe what you feel...
Paul Wyman
Feb 13, 20242 min read
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Integrating Opposite Characters
Excerpt from the forthcoming Inner Team Dialogue book. (c) Paul Wyman 2023 Each character on the Inner Team has one or more opposites...
Paul Wyman
Nov 28, 20232 min read
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The Recovering People Pleasers Club
(c) Paul Wyman, 2023, all rights reserved Scene: A fusty church basement. I’m perched on an uncomfortable plastic chair. “Hi, I’m Paul,...
Paul Wyman
Oct 9, 20234 min read
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The Power of Two: Embracing Ambivalence
Ambivalence: Ambi (Latin, meaning two) + valenz (German, meaning power). Ambivalence means, "having two powers." In my coaching practice,...
Paul Wyman
Jan 11, 20233 min read
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What if the voices in your head could work for you, not against you?
We all have one... the voice in your head offering a mean-spirited commentary on all your deficiencies, flaws, faults, and missteps. If...
Paul Wyman
Dec 15, 20223 min read
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Learning to Slow Down: An ITD Coaching Case Example
From ITD coach Jenny Petersen, MoxieQuest Coaching My coaching client, an up-and-coming leader, was focusing on how to slow down and...
Paul Wyman
Mar 29, 20222 min read
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Judy, the burned-out executive
Judy came to coaching because she’d lost the drive and energy she had demonstrated throughout her successful marketing career. Her...
Paul Wyman
Mar 29, 20222 min read
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Mark, the hyper-competitive sales executive
Mark’s was his organization’s top performing sales person. He had come to coaching after receiving feedback that he was difficult to work...
Paul Wyman
Mar 29, 20222 min read
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Tired of Adulting? Try Kidding Instead
© Paul Wyman, 2022 “Adulting: the practice of behaving in a way characteristic of a responsible adult, especially the accomplishment of...
Paul Wyman
Feb 28, 20223 min read
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