


From Parts to Wholeness
Integrating Inner Team Dialogue with the Leadership Circle Profile
Participant Resources Page
Principles and conventions of parts-work.
The Inner Leader and Outer Leadership.
Identifying Parts: Observation, Inner Critic, Ambivalence
The Protector.
Insiders and Outsiders.
Intrapersonal Polarities
Correlations: LCP Reactive Tendencies and the Inner Team
Parts associated with the Control domain (Pusher, Competitor, Controller, Perfectionist)
Coaching from a part vs Inner Leader.
Working with creative competencies.
Parts associated with the Complying domain (Rule Follower, Pleaser, Loyalist, Peacemaker)
Client education and contracting for ITD.
Parts associated with the Protective domain (Observer, Judge, Expert, Rational).
Approaches to Reflective Practice.
Case-exploration from your practice with your clients.
Common challenges for coaches and clients, and their solutions.
ITD Practitioner panel.
Supportive practices as an ITD practitioner.
Internal diversity and Inclusiveness.
Spiritual dimensions of parts-work.
Parts to Wholeness - Session 1
The Inner Team and its Characters
Pre-Program Reflection
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Reflect on your personal objectives for this program. What outcome would delight you? Come to the first session ready to share.
Purchase a copy of Part of Me: The Inner Team Dialogue Guide
Pre-Session Reading Materials
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Read Chapters 1-2 of Part of Me
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Read Chapter 3 or watch the same material on video here (13 minutes)
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Optional read: What if the Voices in Your Head Could Work For You, Not Against You?
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Optional Read: The Power of Two: Embracing Ambivalence
Inner Team Dialogue: Foundation Videos
Optional Videos
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Facilitation Demonstration: Protector and Trusting (30 minutes)
Reference Materials to Download
We recommend you have these documents available for reference during the live session.
Music
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A Song for the Inner Leader: I Am Loving Awareness (East Forest)
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Two odes to the Inner Critic: Unworthy (Cheryl Wheeler) and Brain Rats (Barbara McAfee)
Participant Contact List
Homework to complete before Session 2
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Turn your attention towards your Inner Team, with particular attention to:
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Activations of your Insiders: when did they activate? What did it feel like when this part activated? How did the part affect your thinking, feelings, body sensations or behaviors?
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Activation of your Inner Critic: If your Inner Critic activates, see if you can identify what rule of behavior you broke, and which part is the holder of that rule.
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Ambivalence: Notice any experience of ambivalence, mixed feelings, internal arguments. Who are the two (or more) parts involved?
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The Protector: Notice moments when fear, worry or anxiety activate in you. What felt true in that moment? What actions felt necessary in that moment?
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Session Recording
Will be posted here within a few hours of the session.
Problems accessing any of the handouts, videos or course materials? Let Paul know
Session 2
Insiders, Outsiders and the Controlling Domain
Pre-Session Action Items
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Take the ITD Insiders Assessment (Password: 2025ITD-free) and read through your results.
ITD Foundational Videos
Parts Associated with the Control Domain
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Driven: Pusher/Being (5 minutes)
Optional Resources
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Facilitation Demonstration: Perfectionist and Messy (40 minutes)
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Explore the Pusher/Being pair through the New York Times Article The Nap Ministry
Exercise Handout:
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Who Bugs You exercise (Please download and have available during the live session)
Post-Session Exercises and Reflections
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Direct your attention to one of your Insiders. Notice what activates it, what it feels like when it is influencing (or running) your Inner Team. What feels true about yourself, others and the way the world works?
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When you are in relationship with someone who seems to have easy access to a quality that’s an Outsider in you, what's that experience like? What reactions do you notice in yourself? How would you describe the quality of relationship between you?
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Pay particular attention to the characters we associated with the Control domain: see if you can pick up indicators in yourself or your clients when these parts are activated. What are the signs and signals that these parts are present?
Session Recording
Session 3
The Inner Leader, Creative Competencies, the Complying Domain
Pre-Session Preparation
Parts Associated with the Complying Domain
Optional videos:
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Pleaser case example (3 minutes)
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Facilitation Demo: Peacemaker and Warrior (Abbreviated, 15 minutes)
Post-Session Exercises and Reflections
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Pay particular attention to the characters we associated with the Complying domain: see if you can pick up indicators in yourself or your clients when these parts are activated. What are the signs and signals that these parts are present?
See if you can identify when your parts got involved in your coaching: Who came up? What activated them? What impact did it have in your session?
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Pick a pair of characters where you have access to both sides. What’s the experience of holding the tension between them.
Session Recording
Session 4
The Protecting Domain, Client Education and Contracting
Session Four Preparation
Characters Associated with the Protecting Domain
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Rational and Feeling (applies to all Protective domain patterns)
Optional Video
Downloadable Resource
Post-Session Exercises and Reflections
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Conduct at least one ITD session (we recommend 2-3), and journal about the experience, using the following prompt questions:
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What went well? What felt easy, or flowed?
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What felt harder, challenging, messy?
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What surprised you?
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What did you learn from the experience?
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What questions are you sitting with?
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What characters from your Inner Team were activated? What impact did that have?
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Practice explaining the Inner Team metaphor to someone unfamiliar with ITD - find your language for this
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In session five, we’ll have a panel of ITD practitioners who will be present to share their experiences with you and answer your questions. Reflect on what questions you’d like to ask during this panel. Come to session 5 with at least one question which feels important to you.
Session Recording
Session 5
Integration of ITD into your Practice; Spiritual dimensions of parts work
Pre-Session Materials
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Responsible and Playful video (7 minutes)
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ITD Practitioner Competencies Overview (8 minutes)
Session Recording, 6/6/25